Are my friends just jealous that I'm having sex and they're not?
AnonymousI lost my virginity when I was 15 to the boy I've been with for nearly 2 years now. He's a wonder. He was exceptionally gentle with me when I needed it, and with a little persuasion, isn't...
View ArticleMy boyfriend isn't ready, but he said I could have sex with my ex. Should I?
NikkiI really want to have sex. But, my boyfriend isn't ready and he said I could have sex with my ex who left me because I wasn't ready. I need to know if i should or not?
View ArticleCan my girlfriend really love me if she lost her virginity to someone else?
RonnieI'm afraid my girlfriend may still be loving her ex-boyfriend who broke her virginity. She has always proved that she loves me but I'm not convinced, even though she says she doesn't have...
View ArticleWe both masturbate, but she hates that I do.
AnonymousRecently my girlfriend and I have become more sexually active. We've agreed not to have intercourse, but to do everything else. Along with our discussions came the issue of masturbation. We...
View ArticleBodaciously Bad Advice: Standardized Testing?
In Bodaciously Bad Advice, a new regularly updated feature at Scarleteen, I look at some of the dating advice articles from glamour magazines and around the web. I find that most of these advice...
View ArticleI need help finding a boyfriend because I go to an all-girl school
kk17I'm 14 and haven't got a boyfriend. I go to an all girls' school, so there are no boys there. I really need help on what I can do to find a boyfriend because loads of my friends have got a...
View ArticleWill He Expect Me to Have Sex With Him?
LadyShadowlightI've been dating my boyfriend for about four months. I just found out yesterday that his ex-girlfriend, who I've never met, was his first sex. It made me feel a little bit awkward, since...
View ArticleHave you experienced jealousy while in a relationship (including with friends)?
Nope, never.Yes, but it's been minor or something I've usually easily tossed off.Yes, and it's had a hold, but I was able to get past/over it.Yes, and it's something I continue to have a hard time...
View ArticleA Pair of Jealous Boyfriends AKA Red Flags Aplenty
SparknoleeI'm 16 and I'm going through relationship problems that I'm not sure how to handle or what to think of. My boyfriend wants me to change the way I dress because he says I look "slutty." He...
View ArticleJealousy: Making Friends With a Green-Eyed Monster
How to tame those scary, growly feelings and use them for good.
View ArticleI Think I'm Poly: How Do I Initiate Open Relationships?
As you enter the wide world of polyamory, take care: a guide to managing poly relationships.
View ArticleLearning My Way Through My Poly Fears
Dynamics like mine require a lot of honesty, and often speaking honestly can make you feel vulnerable, but showing vulnerability to a partner is a good way to build trust and intimacy. At the same...
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